Bokitta and Blurry Minds

Assalamu’alaikum. Hi there again, you guys! 


It’s been more than 3 years since I last visited any Bokitta outlets, mostly due to covid-19, I would say. Loads of existing new ones prior to the pandemic that I haven’t really worn, I mean where to go? Not that I picked a Bokitta to cover my hair each time I cooked, if you know what I mean. And last time I checked, there are more than 8 plain Bokitta hijabs I have in store, out of which only a few ones I took out to play. The rest I even queried myself, when did I buy that? (Which makes me wonder) if the virus had  actually bitten my memories as well, apart from the lungs? 


Anyhow, two days before departing to my in-laws for eid holiday, I went to KL East Mall for a designated (single) purpose. The mission was duly accomplished but I found myself thinking of my late mom so bad that I had to wipe the tears off with cold water in the toilet, generously splashed over my face. By then zuhur’s notification had already appeared on the phone’s screen, just in time to hit the musolla nearby. 


So I thought to myself, mom wouldn’t want me to be dead while I’m still alive and that she wouldn’t want me to succumb to the pain of losing her way too much that I would lose it altogether. With an empty head and heavy heart I walked aimlessly to the front and saw other girls carrying lots of shopping bags. I used to be one of them, buying things for mom despite her “objections” and whatnot. Fresh tears rolled down my cheek mercilessly that I had to stop walking, as if that would stop the pain at all. I gathered myself together and checked in the Bokitta outlet, staring blankly at the various plain pieces that I already had purchased throughout the years. I picked a few sweet printed Chic Maxi pieces to try on and bagged one home, together with 2 discounted instant shawls I never had before. 

Well, I might want to get a few more next visits. This time it would be a pre-meditated walk-in with clear heads and light heart, I hope.

That’s all for today, have a nice Wesak holiday ahead. Assalamu’alaikum.

~ Nai @ Tak Pe Je.





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